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I have no sex drive

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • December 20, 2009
  • 09:18 PM

I am a 18 year old Male with no "urge" to have sex. I am not gay, I don't ever look at guys "gayly", and even thinking about gay "activities" makes me gag. I'm not here to find out how to get "****y" or to pump up my sex drive, I would just like feedback on Why am I like this, to learn a bit more about myself.



Just some background info:

I am a Student at College for Programming (Web development, databases, client programs, etc). So I think with more with my brain, and not my balls.

I do have a girlfriend, we have been going out for almost a year and we have not had sex, nor do I urge for it.

My previous girlfriend was extremely ****y, and we did engage in sexual activity, but she always had to seduce me for anything to happen.

When I "check out" girls, I look at there eyes, not there breasts. The majority of my friends are girls, and I became friends with them because I think they're interesting people, not because they are "hot" or not.

Girls aren't sex objects to me, they are people.

I'm not a "feminine male" either, I am very masculine.

If anyone can help me understand this, I'd appreciate it a lot!
Please no negative or insulting comments, they will just be ignored.

If you need anymore personal info, I'll be glad to provide it.

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  • Get your blood levels checked total testosterone,prolaktine etc. If your not stressed out, it might not be a psychologial thing but due to a endocrinic condition among a hosts of other things. So i would recommend a doctor/urologist, even if its embarassing you got nothing to lose in the long run. Im not a doctor, but they are around for a reason.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 21, 2009
    • 01:40 PM
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  • I am a 18 year old Male with no "urge" to have sex. I am not gay, I don't ever look at guys "gayly", and even thinking about gay "activities" makes me gag. I'm not here to find out how to get "****y" or to pump up my sex drive, I would just like feedback on Why am I like this, to learn a bit more about myself.Just some background info: I am a Student at College for Programming (Web development, databases, client programs, etc). So I think with more with my brain, and not my balls.I do have a girlfriend, we have been going out for almost a year and we have not had sex, nor do I urge for it.My previous girlfriend was extremely ****y, and we did engage in sexual activity, but she always had to seduce me for anything to happen.When I "check out" girls, I look at there eyes, not there breasts. The majority of my friends are girls, and I became friends with them because I think they're interesting people, not because they are "hot" or not.Girls aren't sex objects to me, they are people.I'm not a "feminine male" either, I am very masculine.If anyone can help me understand this, I'd appreciate it a lot! Please no negative or insulting comments, they will just be ignored.If you need anymore personal info, I'll be glad to provide it.First off, do not worry about it too much. You do not have to be ****y all the time. Or maybe you simply have not met the person that does it for you.
    LikeUntoGod 1 Replies
    • January 6, 2010
    • 06:07 AM
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  • I am a 18 year old Male with no "urge" to have sex. I am not gay, I don't ever look at guys "gayly", and even thinking about gay "activities" makes me gag. I'm not here to find out how to get "****y" or to pump up my sex drive, I would just like feedback on Why am I like this, to learn a bit more about myself.Just some background info: I am a Student at College for Programming (Web development, databases, client programs, etc). So I think with more with my brain, and not my balls.I do have a girlfriend, we have been going out for almost a year and we have not had sex, nor do I urge for it.My previous girlfriend was extremely ****y, and we did engage in sexual activity, but she always had to seduce me for anything to happen.When I "check out" girls, I look at there eyes, not there breasts. The majority of my friends are girls, and I became friends with them because I think they're interesting people, not because they are "hot" or not.Girls aren't sex objects to me, they are people.I'm not a "feminine male" either, I am very masculine.If anyone can help me understand this, I'd appreciate it a lot! Please no negative or insulting comments, they will just be ignored.If you need anymore personal info, I'll be glad to provide it.I'm in a similar position, I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18, we have been together a while and he shows no interest in having sex with me, even though he shows me a lot of care and affection in a non sexual way. when we do have sex I have to argue with him before hand and in these arguments he puts me down and makes me feel ashamed for wanting it. He has no medical condition and gets erections easily enough but when he gets an erection he dose not want to do anything with it. What should I do?
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 9, 2011
    • 00:50 PM
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