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husband's inhibited ejaculation

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  • Posted By: filam30
  • November 4, 2008
  • 03:59 AM

i've been married for 1 year and 3 months now. I'm 30 and H is 40. My first sex with him was a few weeks before our wedding and ever since that day till today he never get off in me. He never had any sexual encounter before me and his only way of releasing is through masturbation and most of the time, while watching ***n. It didn't really bother me at first but recently it made me think that he might not be sexually/physically attracted to me but when I brought this up to him he assures me that I was wrong and that I'm plenty of good at bed. I am a very sexual person and we even have tried most of the positions and recently did an anal sex and I loved it. But it seems to me that I never give him the pleasure and most of the time I do most of the work. I also noticed that when he masturbate, he's using a different grip not the usual imitation (up and down stroke) for intercourse. BTW, he's uncut and not sure if this is something to do with this too.

Secondly, what worries me is we're thinking to start a family but it's way too impossible if he can't **m inside of me. We're just an average couple with average paying job and right now can't afford for any therapy.

Any of you here who have the same problem or any advice is very much helpful.:confused: I'm really dying inside and even thinking of giving up and this past couple of days I've been detach and cold to him and no longer initiate sex which I normally does.

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  • I hate to say it but your husband may need to see a sex therapist. It seems to me like that he has established a habit of ejaculating only when masturbating or watching ***n. He needs to over come this.
    stevetaylor 3 Replies
    • December 13, 2008
    • 11:22 PM
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