I have a question that no medical or psychology sites have been able to answer.
My husband can get an erection just fine. He can even climax, but he can't climax more than once in 24 hours although he still gets another erection. I realize I am lucky, but when you consider the minimum we'd have sex in a night was two times, it's a bit unnerving (at least for me) that he's now a 'one hit wonder.' His desire is there. When he gets that second erection he wants to use it but when he does…nothing more happens.
I see all kinds of posts on E.D. but this isn't E.D. His solider can 'salute' but he can only 'go into battle' once a day. If he masturbates that morning, he can't come that night. If we have sex once (and he climaxes) he'll have another erection, but then nothing 'comes' of it.
He's 38 now and he had a vasectomy about 8 years ago. He has no health issues like diabetes. He says he's not masturbating every day or anything. And it's only been in the last three years that this has been an issue. So although he has no difficulty with erection, the problem is climaxing more than once.
He said he desires me - and I'd say that's true since he can perform once a night (just not more than once, even if he wants to). Another thing is that he used to be all over me, but now I'm usually the one to make the first move (which honestly isn't often either lately because I never know if he's going to be able to 'finish' what he starts). A man who comes too soon is a problem... but so is a man who says he loves you but you can’t make him come.
Anyone else have this problem (or a solution)? I'm not sure who to approach with this...an MD, an urologist, a psychologist?