I am 23 years old and have not, until recently, begun having some trouble with my sex life. I started a relationship a few months ago and the first time we were intimate I had no trouble during oral or foreplay. However, when we began I lost hardness and could not get it back.
I had previously had no trouble remaining hard during masturbation, however after this episode I have been on and off with my ability to achieve and maintain during masturbation, and sometimes can have a difficult time. For example I may be able to begin, but any break or hesitation results in almost immediate loss of erection.
I am beginning to grow concerned because in addition to all this my desire to engage in sex has almost disappeared. When I am with my girlfriend, I find myself not in the mood to begin having sex or doing anything, and the prospect does not arouse me as it once did.
My question is has anyone else gone through as similar loss of arousal and interest accompanied by fickle erection abilities? and if so, what might be the cause and solution?
thanks to anyone with insight