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I am 18 years old and about a month ago started dating my girlfriend. She and I began getting involved in oral sex. I've never done this before so I'm completely new at all of this. After having oral sex with me, I began to notice these red sore spots developing ... right beneath the head and on the shaft ... as if they had been "rubbed raw". They are tender spots that now give me a small pain / discomfort when she does any more orally to me.
Should I be concerned? Is this normal? Has anyone else ever had this before? I'm sorry if this question comes across as very explicit. I don't know if I should just "take a break" or if I should rub some moisturizing lotion on the sores, or vaseline, or what I should do.
Thank you so much for any help, and sorry for the embarassing question.