Hi, a couple of hours ago I just had sex with my bf. After we were done, he had noticed that my inner labia was really swollen, and so was the area by my anus. I usually pee after sex, and this time it was a little painful. Two days ago I had anal sex, and tried a different position than usual. A small part by my anus was swollen afterwards. The swelling went away, but now it's back after I had vaginal sex, this time a lot more of my private area is red and swollen.
Does anyone know what might have caused this? Did I not wait long enough for the swelling from anal sex to go away? This was the first time this has ever happened. I've been researching about this and the most common causes are from rough and prolonged sex, not enough lubrication, or a yeast infection. Does anyone know how to make the swelling go away? I'd really appreciate your help.