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unpleasing wife

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • December 30, 2010
  • 08:46 AM

Hi! I'm 28 year old mother of 3 children. My husband and I can't have sex like we used to. It hurts. I have a creamy discharge that sometimes looks like wet toilet paper but my vagina has been severly dry for a while now. It's not because he doesn't turn me on because he still does. I feel like I should be wet but I'm not. Well we had sex and now it feels like a cut inside of me. Every time he tries to enter me it hurts really bad and even when nothing is touching me it hurts. I can feel it. It feels like a cut and I think it might be from me being dry and having intercourse. I don't know why I can't get wet anymore and what the discharge may be. I know I don't have anything because I haven't been with anyone other than my husband and he has nothing. I don't want to keep telling him no because I hurt. What should I do? What causes me to be dry? and how can I fix it? Please someone help me with an answer....thanks!!! unpleasing wife!!!

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  • I know this is an older post but I have been searching through these to find someone who describes what I have - and finally found this! When I first met my partner we always used condoms, but for some reason it really really hurts to have sex, I too feel like I am cut and I am so unbelievably dry, even using lubricating gels only help for about 30 seconds then its back to feeling like even when inside me it is far too dry. I am also 28 but have no children. I have never had this problem before with a previous partner. We have actually stopped using condoms as this is less painful (we both went to get checked for STIs before doing this however and it came back negative). I have had last week an almost rubbery looking discharge which when you say little bits of wet toilet paper absolutely rings a bell! What on earth is wrong as my relationship is suffering as although my partner is nothing but understanding and gentle we both feel like something is wrong. He has also commented it feels like he is "struggling to break through to my cervix" further up when we have sex, although I've had a recent smear and they said it was all normal (no prolapses etc). I've had enough of this!!
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