I gave birth two baby boy (a year apart/ two different pregnancies). they were both born with multiple defects ( brain damage, multiple heart problems, very small at full term). they both passed away a few weeks after birth. No diagnosis has been made. all blood and chromosomes tests were normal. I am not sure what to do. not sure if there is a genetic problem with me or husband. No family history of defects with babies in either family. Doctors don't have an answer or diagnosis. Please help!!! any ideas. Considering Egg or sperm donor next time.