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Possible Pregnancy from fingering?

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  • Posted By: thatredfella
  • December 21, 2006
  • 00:19 AM

Just asking if I should be concerned.

I fingered my girlfriend and we were sitting down, I guided her hand to touch my genital but I didn't "whip it out" and it remained in the underwear, but I used the pocket or whatever you call it that is on most underwear that is used when a man goes to the bathroom. Now, I am not certain if I might have touched anything while putting my hand there and then fingered her. I did not have an orgasm, mind you, so if anything, the only thing that would be there if I even touched anything would be pre **m. Since I used that slit on the underwear, I would have touched the side/shaft of the penis and I am thinking it is highly unlikely I got precum on my fingers then fingered her, even in which case, would still be unlikely to cause pregnancy, not so? It was dark (cinema) and I was wearing baggy jeans so it was a bit hard to navigate. Did I hold on to the penis and masturbate? No, may have just touched the side with my fingers. I also went to the bathroom, to urinate, may have had contact with something, possibly, but I was peeing and I would have washed my hands after in any case. We were fingering and stopping, took breaks and then went back. Also, I had to leave due to an emergency while I was fingering and had to wash hands when I got home, should I worry about anything? I also have a small, something, not really a cut, on one of my fingers, an index, right above the nail, where, for some people the skin tends to go up on some fingers, you may know what I am talking about. Even though my girlfriend is a virgin, should I worry about that, since it is technically an "open sore"? though it wasn't blleding or anything, to my knowledge, only really noticing today since I was looking for any cuts after what I did and saw that.

In short:
Fingered girlfriend
Put her hand to touch penis, using slot in underwear
Wondering if I may have gotten pre-**m on my fingers then fingered her if we should be concerned about pregnancy
Penis remained in underwear, just put hand inthe side slit, doubtful of touching the tip
Did not ejaculate so we're dealing with pre **m if anything got on me at all.Thanks, and yes, I am a paranoid person. Should we try to get EC to be safe or something, or is the risk really too small? This happened approx 24 hours ago.

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  • I can tell that you are very, very, young and stupid. Grow up. you should not be playing around with sex until you have had a full course of sexual education classes. Any **m or pre-**m can cause pregnancy. The chance that your girlfriend could get pregnant that way is highly unlikely. Although, anytime you play around with sex you take a chance on bringing a child into the world. You and your girlfriend are not ready to be experimenting with sex. Stick to masturbation.wait until you grow up.Theresa 64
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 22, 2006
    • 08:05 PM
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  • I understand that, but what I'm hearing is that what is needed is a "squirting" penis to get in there, which was not the case, I didn't even touch the tip of my penis or anything, but I'm a very, very paranoid person, I can more than fess up to that...
    thatredfella 12 Replies
    • December 23, 2006
    • 02:01 AM
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  • It would be highly unlikely pregnancy could result from what you describe, but then again stranger things have happened. As the previous poster said, educate yourselves on sex and don't take any more stupid chances. For someone as paranoid as you describe, one would think you would never take that chance. The other thing is, it's absolutely gross to be diddling each other in a movie theatre. Do you think people want to sit in your seats afterwards? It's extremely disrespectful to others not to mention extremely unsanitary. As well, you could have be arrested for lewd behaviour.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 23, 2006
    • 02:25 AM
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  • Well, it's not like we were full on having sex in the seats would be actually dirty or anything, but I understand what you are getting to and I'm apolagetic, truly. I'm not really nearly as "bad" a person as I may have made myself out to me, the truth of the matter is I never get to see my girlfriend, and when I do, and we're alone (as alone as you can be in the movies) things got a bit heated. Being young and all, I'm hoping you can come to terms with me on this. I have friends who are having sex all around without any regard, with any and every girl, I just got a bit carried away with my girlfriend. Despite the peer pressure and my own wants, I personally do not want to have sex now, partially for religious reasons. As for the sexual education, there is nowhere to get that, really, and the ignorance is not really my fault. I can try to teach myself what I can via the internet, but there is nothing like that taught in schools, not even church, which I have been involved in. Again, in speaking with someone, this is not a question of a pregnancy here, and I really just needed reassurance. I thank you.
    thatredfella 12 Replies
    • December 23, 2006
    • 03:45 AM
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  • I have been reading some very sad and distressing situations thatpeople have unfortunatly found themselfs victims of...I'd like to thank you for cracking me up for a couple minutes...( That is a joke...right? )
    remedy13 24 Replies
    • January 2, 2007
    • 03:30 AM
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  • No, why do you ask?
    thatredfella 12 Replies
    • January 2, 2007
    • 04:30 PM
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  • I'm sorry, please accept my apology, you truly are concerned about this. Listen to the other replies and gain a little knowledge about having sex and the reproductive process. PEACE
    remedy13 24 Replies
    • January 4, 2007
    • 05:17 AM
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  • not to be rude, but this is the dumbest thing i've read all night. come on. seriously?
    kels01 15 Replies
    • January 4, 2007
    • 08:30 AM
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  • Don't worry about it, really. Sperm dies very quickly when out of the body (i.e. a drop on your finger), and also dies immeditally with contact to soap. Also sperm dies when it is dry. So inless you touched yourself then immeditally thrusted your fist in her, you aren't gonig to get her pregnant.
    springmonster 3 Replies
    • January 4, 2007
    • 08:45 AM
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  • No problem, it's cool. Thanks for the replies.
    thatredfella 12 Replies
    • January 5, 2007
    • 00:25 AM
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  • Right on dude! Can I be next????
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  • Don't worry about it, really. Sperm dies very quickly when out of the body (i.e. a drop on your finger), and also dies immeditally with contact to soap. Also sperm dies when it is dry. So inless you touched yourself then immeditally thrusted your fist in her, you aren't gonig to get her pregnant.my boy friend touched his penis and then finger me. then touch penis to vulva. just for 30 sec hardly will it cause pregnancy??mail me at alone_ghazalll@yahoo.complz plz plz reply fast
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 10, 2009
    • 07:45 PM
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  • Hey I'm goin through the same thing
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 22, 2009
    • 11:26 PM
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  • Also, I had to leave due to an emergency while I was fingering What kind of emergency could tear you away from that?:rolleyes:
    wbl4sur 24 Replies
    • December 24, 2009
    • 07:27 PM
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  • Did she get pregnant?
    weeeeezy 1 Replies
    • September 18, 2010
    • 02:39 PM
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  • I think that your concern was legitimate. I realize this post was more than three years ago. How did things turn out? I'm pretty sure there's no way you got pregnant from that (I am a nurse, so I learned all about these things). I have had friends who were concerned about similar things. It is true that there isn't enough education about sex these days; young people have to pretty much figure things out for themselves, and then they get blamed for being stupid, which isn't fair. And churches don't help much with this, at least most of them. I have been in a few youth groups that talk about sex, but they usually talk about the importance of not having it. Which is good, but there should be more education about what happens when you do have it. Even if it's just to prepare you for marriage. Because sex is a very complicated topic. For example, I've read books about how people enter into marriage as virgins, and they have been taught not to have sex so much that they are afraid to be intimate with another person. Sex is something that's very important. I mean, it helps bring the next generation forth! So, for crying out loud, shouldn't we have sex education instead of math in schools? :) If you read my post, I'd like to hear how you're doing .
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • November 17, 2010
    • 04:59 PM
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