27 year old male, early saturday morning (1-16-10) i was intoxicated and visited a female sex worker in mexico. i had protected sex, however 8 hours prior i had shaved my pubic hair. i tried to not get fluid on me, there was not much, mostly lube which seemed to be water based but the condom left about an inch of exposed skin. exactly 35.5 hours later i noticed a painful hard lymph node below my ear next to my jaw line on the left side had formed and recently a smaller non painful one on the right came up. they're not visible but i saw a doctor today 1-18-10 and they noticed it upon touching. the night before i was sweating in bed but i couldn't tell if it was because of nerves and being over dressed. i did not have a temperature at the doctors. i have had a loose diarreah like stool since saturday, but is slighty better today. i had a bad headache the next day and still feel a little nausea and like my head is full, but i did drink alot that night. i have not had very much sleep. my sinuses are fairly clear feeling but the doctor did give me antibiotics for what they she thought could be a sinus infection starting based on examining my throat and also thought i may have a prostate infection.
my lymphs have grown in the past because of eye or sinus infections, is the location of this one more indicative of that? is it too soon to have symptoms? what should i be on the lookout for?
please, any opinions would help, thank you.