I recently cheated on my husband. I have no STDs, have always had clean paps and checkups. We have been together over 10 years and have children. I have never cheated before.
We had intercourse twice, and it wasnt for very long. There was some brief genital to genital contact before the condom was put on. I am very concerned that I may have contracted an STD.
My question is, how soon after intercourse would you notice visible signs if you did contract anything? I am very concerned about HPV as there is a bump after, and some pain around the bottom of my vulva. If I had HPV would it show up right after if it was from him? I know it can stay dormant in your system for a long time. I also notice a white discharge with a foul odour. It has been roughly three days since my loss of judgement.
Any input is greatly appreciated. Please dont judge me though, believe me, I know what I have done. I will be going to my Dr. for a pap very soon. I just need some input so I dont go crazier than I already feel, and have no one to talk to about this!!