I am very worried about my 32 year old daughter. Ever since her 2nd son was born 2 years ago, she has exhibited a major change in her personality. She used to be happy-go-lucky and capable, and now she is pathetically depressed, and unable to cope with life. She can't control her kids or anything around her. She can't get a project done. Right after her son was born, she thought she should be taking Lexapro like her friends do (??). This is what I think might be at the base of the problem. But since then, she has become an alcoholic, and also takes Xanax for anxiety. How can her doctors just shell out these drugs like candy? Her husband works in Chicago (we live in Idaho) Mon-Friday, so I know it's ******n her to have the kids (18 mos apart) all by herself, but this is ridiculous. She has been going to AA for the past month, but I'm not sold on the alcoholism theory. I'm afraid her kids will be taken from her if she doesn't become more responsible. Her father and I are terrified. Her in-laws are threatening to get custody of the kids. Does anyone have a clue as to what could cause a personality change like this? She is not our daughter these days.