I have a pea-sized mole (at least i think it is) in my groin. I had one about 5 years ago and had it removed at my request. I cannot remember which side it was on (can't find a scar either). This one I have noticed over the last couple of years. It seems softer than most moles I've had (several removed, none malignent, and all were brown), and is skin colored with maybe a purple/blue tinge. The last removal was quite unpleasant, so I'd reather avoid scalpels. I guess firstly I need to be sure what it is.
I have read about raised moles being tied off or frozen...maybe that is a possibility?