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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • December 31, 2006
  • 07:21 PM

i am 24 year old mother of a 4 year old son and my son is not biologically my husbands he knows that but wewant to have one of our own nd we need som help i am over weight and i thnk that is the problem but it seems i am not losing so can anyone give em some advise of the best positions to get in or remodys ideas should i stand on ym head here also i skip periods alot so i am not sure when i ovulate some times i do not have one ffor 2 or 3 months at a time am i still ovulations if i am not mentrating please let me know thank you money is not great not for some persedure but love is over full we just need the child

love
deperate for answers
patricia rhoades in florida

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  • Ok, number one, if youre concerned about your weight try weightwatchers. Its really a great diet and take a walk everyday for about half an hour and increase your pace as you see fit. I promise you, you will at least lose 5 pounds in your first week...And second...there is no specific position to have sex that will make you get pregnant. unless you really wanna do it upside down :) Just do it naturally, the more you stress about it the harder its gonna be for you month to month. If you think there is nothing wrong with either of you...then just have sex like you were 18!!! (and that is like 3 times a day)! haha! Have fun!!!!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 31, 2006
    • 10:14 PM
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  • I say try the adkins diet......Most people over weight at such a young age usually have high sugar levels that turn to fat.... Need to also get out and walk..... I know that you energy levels are probably down but you can build them up with weight loss, good diet, exercise and sleep.....Atleast 8 hrs a night.... Good Luck
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 12, 2007
    • 08:19 AM
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  • First thing's first. If you are overweight, a pregnancy can add lots more stress to your body along with complications. Please try to lose some weight first, and then you will be in a better position for having another baby. Exercise is key - can't lose weight unless you exercise, period. Find a gym, yoga class, or just take up walking but schedule this into your week or you won't do it. Get some 1-2lb weights and do some weight training exercises. I GUARANTEE YOU WILL FEEL SO MUCH BETTER ONCE YOU EXERCISE REGULARLY! I agree with the other post on weight watchers or Jenny Craig - they are a great support in your weightloss goals. Good supplements for weightloss are Tonalin CLA, Citramax, and Hoodia. Don't take all three, just choose one and check with your doctor before doing any of this. Most "diets" just don't work. Atkins is very unhealhy for long term. A better choice I think is South Beach as it contains healthy carbs. By just cutting out sugar and dairy you will very likely lose weight fast. But mostly you need to be patient and give yourself time. You are young and have many many years to have more children. If you can get healthy first, you will be better able and happier later down the road. Also, if you lose weight and exercise your periods should become more regular, making it easier to get pregnant. Wish you luck and hope this helps,Doctor of Oriental Medicine
    acuann 3080 Replies
    • January 12, 2007
    • 03:10 PM
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