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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • October 13, 2007
  • 10:40 AM

hi ,
I have a question that is popping up in my head always .

I am 26 now, From my childhood my hands used to shiver a bit but i never bother about that till recently when a friend of mine said that a person with nerve weakness will be having their ejection of sperm quickly in bed . Is it True ?

I will be having my sperm ejected if i had any romantic dream with someone .I am afraid of speaking this to someone and now a days even to get married to some one feeling that i may not satisfy her in bed .i never had sex with any one till now .

I even look thin with loose skin but have good strength and does not have any other health problems.

can anyone suggest me the cause of nerve weakness and any solution for it .

please some one help me in this regard .

thanks,mak.

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  • Don't listen to your friend about how good you are in bed unless they have slept with you. Shakey hands are a sign that something may be going on in your brain (see a neurologist to rule out disease), or it could just be a bad habit. You are very self conscious and worry about being good in bed and what will the woman think. Well, let me tell you this, satisfy the woman before you get inside of her and that will make her want you again and again....take your time, don't just jump on her and put it in...that is a disaster...be slow and loving and gentle, with lots of kisses and telling her how beautiful she is...that is what a woman wants...then you will be the greatest lover...and then you satisfy yourself, using protection, of course, only after your lady is satified or begging for you to come inside her.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • October 14, 2007
    • 07:21 AM
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  • Thanks for your reply but is the ejection in bed a common thing or will it be for who is suffering with nerve weakness .I used to play sports before 5 years ,since i stopped playing my skin is becoming loose and more softer than girls .I will be having no real muscle like men and thin bones and loose skin . I am not interested in activity now a days and having more inferiority complex for everything .I even think may be i am more old than my age .i dont even have one bad habit ,still i dont understand why this is all happening to me.please do suggest me as i think my life is going in a bad direction with no aim at all.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 14, 2007
    • 02:14 PM
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  • hi mak.i think the above is perhaps the best advice you could have.thank you monsterlove.this is all i can add:"nerve weakness "is no longer the way these things are spoken of,and there is no connection known between shaking hands and any aspect of sexual performance.(think about it ;how would you research it?how could you rely on people telling the truth?how would you ask?)no, it is all nonsense.just one of these evil myths to upset people.finally i want you to give women credit.they understand us better than you think!sex is not something which you do to a woman.it is a cooperative venture calling for mutual aid and understanding,though it is portrayed and spoken of as if it were a kind of particularly vicious martial art,in which technique and stamina were all that mattered.it is hard for the sexually inexperienced to form a decent idea of sexual realitywhen this kind of cruel and inhuman misinformation is being so widely promoted.work on your honesty,especially your emotional honesty,and your sense of honour.keep clean and stand up straight,and a good woman will soon enough notice you,when you have made yourself worthy of her.good luck.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 14, 2007
    • 06:02 PM
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  • A very good reply unregistered.Old world mentalities are being disolved even as we speak by a lethal dose of common sense and an agenda free honesty.The invincible male and a shoe-in mentality that asserts him to be the important one in society because he IS male- has spawned some incarcerative results in the psyche of those who would otherwise be free.It's easy to root for someone as open as this guy.
    Dioloquese 8 Replies
    • October 16, 2007
    • 07:27 PM
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  • I believe that all men have these "ejections in bed". You are very normal but are obsessing that you are not normal. What about taking some painting lessons or something that you can throw your emotions in to. You need to develop a passion and dedicate yourself to it, otherwise you will mess your self up for the rest of your life if you continue to be down on yourself.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • October 18, 2007
    • 00:41 AM
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  • Mak, your shaking hands and thin body with loose skin sound to me like a thyroid problem. It is possible you have hyperthyroidism. Don't worry about premature ejaculation. It is common with young men. You will be just fine. Time and patience can overcome most sexual differences.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 21, 2007
    • 09:13 PM
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  • hi All, Thanks all you good people (Monsterlove,Unregistered,Dioloquese,Auntie) ,for your great reply . I am sorry for my late reply. you have definitely made me positive in my thinking . once i will visit a doctor to know about the cause of nerve weakness and try to stay positive .I think ,i thought of it more and more so that it is in my subconscious mind rotating all the time . I was even afraid to stay at a friends or relatives place thinking about the ejection ,i was really vexed with my life but as i had a good family and their love and support made me to live till now ,as i wanted to give something back and ended up doing nothing to them till now .I will try to focus on my carrier write now and prove myself first and leave the rest to god .Thanks one and all,Take Care,bye,Mak
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 26, 2007
    • 01:35 PM
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