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  • Posted By: aaliyah
  • April 16, 2008
  • 11:55 AM

Please can anyone tell me or explain what causes death if a person vomits blood with clots in then dies while vomiting.. my son died over in yemen .. they buried him without my consent.. im being tormented by his death... my loss of my son who was 20years old.. he only went for a holiday it is a islamic country... i was later told someone poisened my baby... and thats why he died.. I miss him so much.. I love him till i cant breathe...
He died within a matter of four days.. sudden death.. he was due to come back home to the Uk on the wednesday but died tuesday.. they buried him without asking my consent.. hiding all evidence of what happened to my loving son.. Please can anyone explain the causes possibilities of vomiting blood... with clots followed by death... i need to know what may of happened to my son..

Aaliyah please please please help me im a mother in desparate help

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  • Dear Aaliyah: I cannot tell you how sorry I am to hear about your son's death and the circumstances surrounding it. You really must be having a horrible time! I am unable to help with what may have caused your son's death, but I am worried about you. Please, find someone to talk to about this, you are obviously in deep mourning and are extremely stressed...talk to a family member, your church, or seek councel from a professional. ALso try this forum: http://www.healthboards.com/and look in the area under "Death and Dying"...many people who have lost someone share their stories there....you may be able to find some relief and comfort. Do take care of yourself....I am a religious person, and in my heart I know your son is in a happy wonderful place....God is taking care of him now. Peace with you, Aaliyah. Joan
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  • Dear Joan thankyou very much for your concern, it means alot to me... I am seeing counselling and other resorces etc but nothing has helped me... im religious also and pray all the time to God asking him to guide me.. etc.. Thankyou for the link i will go there after i post this to you... I miss my son so much its killing me, i also have a website i created for him... its my comfort zone and a way to honour him.. if you wish to see it its.. wasim-hussein.last-memories.com just a suggestion if you would like to visit his site.. so many people across the world especially parents who have lost children visit.. we light candles for each others children.. its a beautiful place for us to go Take care and thankyou so much for the link God Bless Aaliyah
    aaliyah 16 Replies Flag this Response
  • Dear Aaliyah. This has many links to articles about this sort of vomiting.http://www.wrongdiagnosis.com/symptom/vomiting-of-blood.htmThis site also has information:http://www.mayoclinic.com/print/vomiting-blood/DG00045/METHOD=printI am so sorry to hear of your son's death. When I was looking this up, the articles kept saying peptic ulcer. The clotting probably means he swallowed blood or had blood in his stomach for awhile before he vomited because clots are from old blood. If he had a fever it could have been from an infection. Sometimes rarely a person can have a tumor which can cause this. Travelers sometimes get very sick quickly because they are not immune to the diseases in the other country. He could have had some bad water or food or was bitten by an infected mosquito or rat and got a type of fever which causes internal bleeding.I understand why you are so desperate to know what might have caused his death. I do not know who told you he was poisoned. Sometimes people just guess such things. It is possible, but when a young person dies suddenly it is such a terrible tragedy that people sometimes jump to conclusions. I think you should consider whether the person who told you had knowledge that is reliable or is only guessing because it happened so fast. If they told you the name of a person who poisoned, maybe they do know something and can tell you more. If you have reason to think someone really did poison him, I think you can contact the embassy there and ask for help.There are some fevers in that area of the world that cause internal bleeding and vomiting. Rift Valley Virus had an outbreak in Yemen in the year 2000 so it is possible your son could have got this or maybe Yellow Fever which was reported in neighboring countries.Unless you have reasons to believe your son had enemies, I think he was probably bleeding inside without symptoms for awhile before this terrible sad event. I am not a doctor and maybe a doctor will come give you a better answer. I did read a lot of articles trying to figure this out for you.I am sure he was a good man. I am also religious and I think he is not suffering where he is now. I worry for you, who are suffering here without him. May God Bless you and give you strength.
    BesideMyself 41 Replies Flag this Response
  • Aaliyah:: I am so sorry for your loss. -Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The website is beautiful.
    LINENUP 122 Replies Flag this Response
  • Dear besidemyself... Thankyou so much for the information you provided it makes a lot of sense in a way... as wasim said he was so cold... his last few days and skin was yellow.... wasim was in a car crash a month before he passed he said he suffered a blow to the chest from the inpact of the crash.. so this also i take into consideration. A car hit the back of the car he was travelling in.. he also said his toe swell up and the doctor gave him antiboctics for a possible infection.... my son was a lovely boy this is why i find it hard to believe anyone would poisen him... people said he was poisened because he wanted to marry a stange girl... wasim having a British passport caused jealous amongst people who wanted to come to the UK.. i know i find all this mad!!!!! and stupid if true.... i miss my son so much.. and feel i failed him as his mother.... Thankyou for going out your way to help me.. Kind regards Aaliyah God Bless
    aaliyah 16 Replies Flag this Response
  • Dear Linenup... Thankyou so much for your kind words and for visiting my sons website, this means so much to me xxxxx Kind regards Aaliyah
    aaliyah 16 Replies Flag this Response
  • Dear Aaliyah, I too looked at your memorial site for your son & was so moved, to look at your son he radiates such warmth & love, I am so sorry for your loss. I just look at him & feel that in no way anyone harmed him, it is tragic what happened but these things can & do happen. I have such a strong feeling that ur son is saying "Mum I'm ok, no-one harmed me".........I hope you are not upset by me telling you this but the feeling is so strong ! There is a poem that I remembered reading & I looked it out for you................I'm only going to quote some verses, I hope u find comfort in them.........I feel this is what he is saying. Letter from Heaven ! It happened so quickly,in the blink of an eye.I was too ill.No time for "Goodbye" I yearned so to hold you and say "its okay"But he took my hand and said"lets be on our way" Please don't grieve for me now, Mum, for I have not died.He just put this lamp out, for my dawn has arrived. Though I miss you intenselyas i know you'll miss me.He has places to take me,and wonderous things I shall see. I've been reborn to a placeyou can't now understand;a place of Glory, and Peace nestled in His right hand. Yet I'll be with you always,only a faint breath away.My love shall be with youevery moment, every day. And although I don't know yetevery step of His plan, Rest secure in the knowledgethat we will meet again ! by Ferna Lary My heart goes out to you for your loss of such a fine, handsom, young man. God bless...........Hugs to you !
    Tootsie 628 Replies Flag this Response
  • Dear Aaliyah, I too looked at your memorial site for your son & was so moved, to look at your son he radiates such warmth & love, I am so sorry for your loss. I just look at him & feel that in no way anyone harmed him, it is tragic what happened but these things can & do happen. I have such a strong feeling that ur son is saying "Mum I'm ok, no-one harmed me".........I hope you are not upset by me telling you this but the feeling is so strong ! There is a poem that I remembered reading & I looked it out for you................I'm only going to quote some verses, I hope u find comfort in them.........I feel this is what he is saying. Letter from Heaven ! It happened so quickly,in the blink of an eye.I was too ill.No time for "Goodbye" I yearned so to hold you and say "its okay"But he took my hand and said"lets be on our way" Please don't grieve for me now, Mum, for I have not died.He just put this lamp out, for my dawn has arrived. Though I miss you intenselyas i know you'll miss me.He has places to take me,and wonderous things I shall see. I've been reborn to a placeyou can't now understand;a place of Glory, and Peace nestled in His right hand. Yet I'll be with you always,only a faint breath away.My love shall be with youevery moment, every day. And although I don't know yetevery step of His plan, Rest secure in the knowledgethat we will meet again ! by Ferna Lary My heart goes out to you for your loss of such a fine, handsom, young man. God bless...........Hugs to you ! Dear Tootsie Thankyou so much for your kind and comforting words.. they mean so much to me... that you feel no one harmed him... and thankyou for taking the time to visit his website.. its a great comfort to know people care... I did like your poem and for that i put it on his website... Many thanks and love to you.. God Bless you xxx Aaliyah (((Hugs)))
    aaliyah 16 Replies Flag this Response
  • Dear Aaliyah. This has many links to articles about this sort of vomiting.http://www.wrongdiagnosis.com/symptom/vomiting-of-blood.htm This site also has information:http://www.mayoclinic.com/print/vomiting-blood/DG00045/METHOD=print I am so sorry to hear of your son's death. When I was looking this up, the articles kept saying peptic ulcer. The clotting probably means he swallowed blood or had blood in his stomach for awhile before he vomited because clots are from old blood. If he had a fever it could have been from an infection. Sometimes rarely a person can have a tumor which can cause this. Travelers sometimes get very sick quickly because they are not immune to the diseases in the other country. He could have had some bad water or food or was bitten by an infected mosquito or rat and got a type of fever which causes internal bleeding. I understand why you are so desperate to know what might have caused his death. I do not know who told you he was poisoned. Sometimes people just guess such things. It is possible, but when a young person dies suddenly it is such a terrible tragedy that people sometimes jump to conclusions. I think you should consider whether the person who told you had knowledge that is reliable or is only guessing because it happened so fast. If they told you the name of a person who poisoned, maybe they do know something and can tell you more. If you have reason to think someone really did poison him, I think you can contact the embassy there and ask for help. There are some fevers in that area of the world that cause internal bleeding and vomiting. Rift Valley Virus had an outbreak in Yemen in the year 2000 so it is possible your son could have got this or maybe Yellow Fever which was reported in neighboring countries. Unless you have reasons to believe your son had enemies, I think he was probably bleeding inside without symptoms for awhile before this terrible sad event. I am not a doctor and maybe a doctor will come give you a better answer. I did read a lot of articles trying to figure this out for you. I am sure he was a good man. I am also religious and I think he is not suffering where he is now. I worry for you, who are suffering here without him. May God Bless you and give you strength. Dear besidemyself ....... The articles make so much sense to my son's symtoms.. thankyou so much for them... Im so so so grateful.. and thats from the bottom of my heart... May God Bless you and watch over you and your family.. (((Hugs))) Aaliyah
    aaliyah 16 Replies Flag this Response
  • Dear Tootsie Thankyou so much for your kind and comforting words.. they mean so much to me... that you feel no one harmed him... and thankyou for taking the time to visit his website.. its a great comfort to know people care... I did like your poem and for that i put it on his website... Many thanks and love to you.. God Bless you xxx Aaliyah (((Hugs))) Hi again Aaliyah.....I looked again at ur sons site and the "Letter from Heaven" fits in so nicely......... Im glad u found comfort in it. I also wanted to say to you.......There is in no way u failed ur son.....You brought a kind caring young man into the world, you raised him with love & understanding and taught him respect........He was a credit to you & he knew this and loved you & was equally proud of you ! You give him more love in 20yrs than some mothers give in a life time ! Take comfort in this........ big Hugs xxx
    Tootsie 628 Replies Flag this Response
  • Dear Tootsie..... thankyou for your kind words they give me so much comfort, i felt as if you knew wasim and what he felt about me as he loved me so much and always said "mom" you do so much for me i want to look after you some day and make you proud of me.". i always told him that i am proud of him.. we had a strong bond.. it was so strong.. thankyou so much dear.. reading your words it was like my son whispering in your ears and telling you to tell me... May God Bless you and give you good health always and your family xxx Thankyou for visiting my son's site (((Tootsie))) Aaliyah
    aaliyah 16 Replies Flag this Response
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  • Hi aaliyah how are u doing now ? i have been thinking about u....just wanted to say hello ! Hugs :)x
    Tootsie 628 Replies Flag this Response
  • Hi aaliyah how are u doing now ? i have been thinking about u....just wanted to say hello ! Hugs :)x Hello Tootsie... thankyou for asking about me.. im not too good sweety, grieving very badly, i miss my son so much i cant breathe.... I was told today that he was saying just before he died "I want my mom"......... It is killing me... he was in a differant country and i had no idea he was dying as i spoke to him the night before and he was coming home to me... I thought he was poorly and nothing serious, i said to him "you will be home with me son wednesday and ill take you to the doctor.... he died tuesday morning calling for his mom...Im lost and filled with guilt... my life has ended the day his life did. Sorry for going on sweety.. Take care and may God protect you and your family and shower you with his blessings xxxxxxxxxx Aaliyah xxx
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