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  • Posted By: doublanga
  • April 8, 2008
  • 04:42 PM

I’m 30 years old. I am in my second marriage and I have had several other relationships. They all start the same way, a strong desire to be close and exciting sex. After a few months, the desire for sex starts to wane. After a year I desire sex maybe once a week and it goes down from there. My first marriage ended after 5 years because my wife had an affair. I can't say I blame her much. I don't want my second one to go the same way. We have been married for 2 years now, and I am having trouble maintaining once a week sex. She is very sexual and would like much more. I have also been on the pill for 13 years and I have recently (3 months ago) started taking St. Johns Wort for minor depression. I have no trouble achieving orgasm once I am aroused.
How can I increase my sexual desire? Could being on the pill have an effect?

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  • I’m 30 years old. I am in my second marriage and I have had several other relationships. They all start the same way, a strong desire to be close and exciting sex. After a few months, the desire for sex starts to wane. After a year I desire sex maybe once a week and it goes down from there. My first marriage ended after 5 years because my wife had an affair. I can't say I blame her much. I don't want my second one to go the same way. We have been married for 2 years now, and I am having trouble maintaining once a week sex. She is very sexual and would like much more. I have also been on the pill for 13 years and I have recently (3 months ago) started taking St. Johns Wort for minor depression. I have no trouble achieving orgasm once I am aroused. How can I increase my sexual desire? Could being on the pill have an effect? Hi there, sorry to hear about your problem. I don't really know how to answer this, but I'll try. Firstly, I'd suggest you see your GP in regards to you taking the pill, they might be able to tell you more if this is the cause of your problem or not. In regards to your minor depression, this can also have a big part on your state of mind and maybe it'd be a good idea to mention this to your GP too, and maybe get to the root of the problem. Maybe if you talk to you wife about it, she'll be understanding and can share your problem, instead of worrying and suffering in silence, atleast that way she wont be thinking its that you don't love/want her anymore.Well, I hope this is of some help.Goodluck:)
    Real_eyes08 10 Replies Flag this Response
  • First I would like to say that the Pill has probably no part in this. I got a book when I was in the same condition. It’s provides all information about men sexual health and with the help of this book you can have a better sex life. It really worked for me and I hope this will work out for you too. Have a great sexual life! Bye!
    jourge23 1 Replies Flag this Response
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