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Badly damaged/torn circumsized penis

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  • Posted By: lovetree
  • November 27, 2006
  • 10:10 PM

I am circumsized. By habit I guess I scratched it quite a bit when i was young, especially in the shower. It left very tiny holes. I got frustrated when a girlfriend of mine asked me about it and I told her i'd get it checked out. I went to a doctor he said nothing to much, don't worry about it, nothing can be done. Stupid me I decided if i injured it it would heal. So i used my shaver pressed ******n those areas with tiny holes that were maybe a few mm's. Anyways, it bled and scabs formed. A day later my girlfriend was over I she was mad at me that I wouldn't have sex. So I put on a condom. After the sex the scabs were gone and never healed leaving larger holes ranging in size from mm-cm. Its really depressing, its been over a year, and I can't beleive I did that. I am determined to have the skin repaired. I have never heard of any plastic surgeons who have and can do this. I am not going back to the doctor to hear him say why did you do that and there's nothing I can do. Please, if there is an angel of mercy out there solve this one for me. God bless anyone who puts me in the right direction and solves this for me : )

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  • If I was you , I would just give it some time.Maybe celabacy would be a good thing for you right now.There are more important things to concentrate on than how good your privates look.IF they work alright then leave them alone.Dont get all in a tizzy right now.If they have healed shut that is a good thing.Like any sore , or cut you have ever had the skin needs time to heal.Men seem so self conscious about their penis' all the time. Like the size and the shape and blah, blah, blah,We were created like we are.Forgive yourself for what you feel was the wrong thing to do.As long as it doesn't seem like its gonna fall off then forget it.Here is a suggestion.IGNORE your penis for 30 days and see what happens.Tell your girlfriend that its on vacation and give it a rest.Concentrate on other things , put your mind to rest and try and discoverwhy you were actually created. Talk to your creator about it..Give it up to Him...... Be blessed brother.. theres more to life !!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 2, 2006
    • 11:55 AM
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  • I tried being celibate. Didn't work it won't heal its been almost a year.I wish time healed it but it hasn't. The skin hasnt grown back and won't because there is nothing, no scab or tissue forming on it.I was cicumsized when I was born. The problem was that I scratched my penis from when I was really young..a stupid habit when no one was around in the end little tiny holes formed. My girlfriend noticed and I went to a doctor who said it was nothing and nothing could be done. I went home shaved it and pressed the shaver against the tiny holes thinking if they bled and formed scabs they would heal. I was so stupid and now i'm completely ashamed and wish badly to have it repaired. I'm deperately hoping someone will lead me in the right direction to having this repaired and helping me move on with my life. God bless all of you kind amazing people who reply to me. There are about 20 holes with about 2-5 large ones. I wish i knew what the solution to it was. I tried waiting a few months it just wont heal. I have holes/tares in the skin and it looks really bad. I don't know how i could have been so stupid to press my shaver against it so hard. It was almost a year ago and I wish i could go back to that moment and have stopped myself. I will reply yo all posting. God bless you all in my journey to solve this. http://forums.wrongdiagnosis.com/images/misc/progress.gif
    lovetree 12 Replies
    • December 5, 2006
    • 02:40 AM
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  • so maybe we could use your services to water the lawn? john joe.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 20, 2006
    • 11:11 AM
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  • You should get a second opion.My son, who is a year and a half, was circumsized. There was a minor complication with some scabbing, but it has totally healed. There is no way that you could have spent your childhood scratching at scabs from your circumcision since you wouldn't have had scabs after your 10th day of life or so and you would not have been able to scratch at such a young age, never mind the diaper that would have been in your way. Get a second opinion. I have no idea how you scratched holes in your penis, but you should have been taken to a dr when you were young. Go now. Those holes have nothing to do with your circumcision unless you were circumsized as a boy and not a newborn.Good luck.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 26, 2006
    • 02:34 PM
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  • Thanks for your suggestion. I'm still trying to figure out what to do and where to go. Any doctors who can help please let me know. Thanks to all who reply. I will respond to all replies. God bless you all.
    lovetree 12 Replies
    • January 9, 2007
    • 05:47 PM
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  • Thanks for your suggestion. I'm still trying to figure out what to do and where to go. Any doctors who can help please let me know. Thanks to all who reply. I will respond to all replies. God bless you all.If they can repair and re connect John Bobbets penis, im sure urs can be repaired. U need to contact a Urologist and go in for a consult. Thats where i would start. GL with ur issue and hope all is better soon for u.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • August 11, 2009
    • 03:53 AM
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  • Any wound that will not heal is very concerning. You need to see a doctor ASAP! Even if you are embarrassed about it. Do Not Wait!!! Keep the area clean and dry (DO NOT scrub) and for heaven's abstain from sex.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • August 12, 2009
    • 02:56 AM
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  • I am circumsized. By habit I guess I scratched it quite a bit when i was young, especially in the shower. It left very tiny holes. I got frustrated when a girlfriend of mine asked me about it and I told her i'd get it checked out. I went to a doctor he said nothing to much, don't worry about it, nothing can be done. Stupid me I decided if i injured it it would heal. So i used my shaver pressed ******n those areas with tiny holes that were maybe a few mm's. Anyways, it bled and scabs formed. A day later my girlfriend was over I she was mad at me that I wouldn't have sex. So I put on a condom. After the sex the scabs were gone and never healed leaving larger holes ranging in size from mm-cm. Its really depressing, its been over a year, and I can't beleive I did that. I am determined to have the skin repaired. I have never heard of any plastic surgeons who have and can do this. I am not going back to the doctor to hear him say why did you do that and there's nothing I can do. Please, if there is an angel of mercy out there solve this one for me. God bless anyone who puts me in the right direction and solves this for me : )I did something crazy like that when I was young and depressed. I took a brillo pad and scrubbed and scrubbed. Doctors told me there was nothing they can do to help as well. It will heal on its own they said. But guess what that happened when I was 14 and now I am 29 it has gotten a lil better but I was too ashamed to go to the doctor again. If you find a solution please let me know. I would greatly appreciate it.
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