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14 year old female gynemimetophiliac?

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  • Posted By: otogakure
  • December 17, 2010
  • 01:28 AM

I'm female. I'm 14 years old, in my first year of high school. I get good grades and I'm pretty normal. But yet... I'm getting the feeling I have Gynemimetophilia... I'm really confused. I don't like girls at all, but I do like girly boys, like gay and bi boys. How do i fix this? It can't be normal.
I know there is nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian or bi or pansexual.
But I don't really understand this... I'm attracted to people like Jeffree Star. How do I fix this? Is it normal? What should I do?

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  • I'm female. I'm 14 years old, in my first year of high school. I get good grades and I'm pretty normal. But yet... I'm getting the feeling I have Gynemimetophilia... I'm really confused. I don't like girls at all, but I do like girly boys, like gay and bi boys. How do i fix this? It can't be normal.I know there is nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian or bi or pansexual.But I don't really understand this... I'm attracted to people like Jeffree Star. How do I fix this? Is it normal? What should I do? I personally dont think there is much you can do, everyone is different and has different attractions whether it be to blondes with blue eyes, gay relationships or whatever. I think you need to come to terms with just who you are... is there a counsellor you could speak to at your school, if so, i suggest to see if you can.
    taniaaust1 2267 Replies
    • December 18, 2010
    • 11:14 AM
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  • I'm female. I'm 14 years old, in my first year of high school. I get good grades and I'm pretty normal. But yet... I'm getting the feeling I have Gynemimetophilia... I'm really confused. I don't like girls at all, but I do like girly boys, like gay and bi boys. How do i fix this? It can't be normal.I know there is nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian or bi or pansexual.But I don't really understand this... I'm attracted to people like Jeffree Star. How do I fix this? Is it normal? What should I do?What I did was retrained my brain. I too, was attracted to Gay men. What I did was force myself to look at the inside of someone who wasn't gay or bi and how they thought. I concentrated on how they stood on issues, discrimination, faith, how they treated others who were different. I then got to know how they were as a person, how they behaved in public when authority wasn't around. I also concentrated on finding things I had in common with people who weren't gay or bi. I understand that its hard. I kept reminding myself that its nearly impossible to find 'true love' with someone who is gay or bi. I also reminded myself that if I really wanted to find someone who wants me for who I am and what goes on inside my brain, would agree with not kissing until after marriage instead of saying 'forget' it. This was the hardest thing for me, because I was taught that kissing is what you do on dates. But, I found from personal experience, that if I didn't kiss on dates and refused to kiss before marriage, I wasn't harassed by people who only wanted to take advantage of me. They weren't interested in me any more. With Gays/Bi: I find that they understand me better. However, I also believe that anyone can learn to understand me if they only put their mind to it. Some Gays just tend to be more intuitive with female issues and what nots. By the way, my best friend is Gay. I just wouldn't try to marry him, or live with him. He has his partner and I support that. :D
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • December 20, 2010
    • 02:50 AM
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