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No Orgasm

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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • June 18, 2006
  • 10:13 PM

I Had My First Sex 6 Months Ago But I Could Not Reach Orgasm Even Once. Who Can Help Me Reach It? Which Techniques Help To Have Earlier Orgasm?

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  • Look. not all guys are good at the actual sex. My girlfriend was 25 when I met her and She had not even goten close to having one. she would Actually get scared at the feeling she was feeling so it would break her concentration.. Now, if you are thinking of having one to the point of Obsession!! you will never have it. so just relax, And the next guy you get with, tell him to go down!!!! That's what did it for my girl. but I am gifted with that..LOL Just relax and don't plan on having one. just enjoy the leadup to it , and then poof, you will be Exploding!!
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  • heyi feel for you.........i have always found it easy to orgasm......but my friend has only ever twice in the 5 yrs she has been having sex............the bloke from the previous post is kind or right it is somewhat effected by how good the bloke is but it also depends on you as a person and how comfortable you feel when having sex...........u really do need to let yourself go...........get into the mood and feel the sensations why he is pleasing you..........forget any body hang ups and explore...............sex really is the greatest when you let this happen, and if you do you will find you orgasm all the time...........feel it girl! enjoy it and be comfortable.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • August 18, 2007
    • 06:34 AM
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  • It is probably best for you to "get to know" your body. Touch yourself and find out what feels good to you. Then, the next time you have sex, show your partner what you like, or at least position yourself for stimulation.Good luck.
    dbrown007a 1 Replies
    • September 20, 2007
    • 01:28 AM
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  • I have been married for 5 years we have sex regularly but I have not experienced orgasm in my life. Please help now our marriege is shaking
    rebeca 1 Replies
    • October 9, 2007
    • 04:12 AM
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  • Girls I'm 35 and just had my first orgasm a couple of years ago, and I didnt even believe in female orgasm.. I just got bored one day and decided to forget how hypersensitive( I thought) my clitoris was( I never let men mess with it much) and just fiddled with it until it went off on its own, to my surprise.Turn down the lights and put music on, whatever helps put you in the mood, get some type of lubricant(olive oil works great in a pinch), apply, and diddle that thing HARD and I promise, unless you have a physical issue thats preventing it, you will orgasm.Rebeca orgasm is nice buts its like evreything else, a bit overrated- and it cannot be the sole savior of a shaky marriage... in my opinion.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • November 6, 2007
    • 03:07 AM
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  • I was 36 before I had my first orgasm. My husband and I tried everything. It wasn't until I got talked into purchasing a vibrator with a clitoral stimulater that I had success - on high speed, with new batteries and it still took 20 minutes...and 10 years later that is still the case. On the upside, once I've reached orgasm I can continue to enjoy multiple ones only a few minutes apart thereafter. The worst part? What to do with all the half used batteries?
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 1, 2008
    • 00:58 AM
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  • I didn't have my first orgasm until I was 21. Luckily my partner goes out of his way to make sure I do everytime we have sex. If my back is feeling funny at all and we have to stick to missionary we put a pillow under my **s so my hips are raised which also helps to stimulate me to orgazm (too much info?) this may also help a lot of people.Not a lot of women can orgazm from vaginal stimulation and therefore need to find ways where the clitoris is stimulated (good lord I sound like a sex therapist). Hope this helps and didn't make you feel sick lol.:)
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