hi there! i hope someone can help me. i have extreme pain when it's time to have a bowel movement and during. what concerms me most is when i get the urge and am ready to go, i can feel the stool moving down the last part of my anus/canal and it is sooooo painful that i can't walk. i have to stop and hold on to something.
in addition of that, i have painful bm's. so much so that i scream out, and the push reflex is so stong and painful that it's like giving birth (i have a child, so i know). also, my stool is hard and usually tears my anus and i bleed and am sore for a few days. i know i have some constipation, so i take stool softeners and perscription lactulose to help.
it's so bad that i do all i can to make sure i don't have to go when i'm not at home. hopefully some of you have some insight.