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What's wrong with me?

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  • Posted By: elisabethjoice
  • December 12, 2010
  • 06:27 PM

When I was 16, I started having sex. I'm nearly 19 now. Whenever I was about 17 I started having unprotected sex with my boyfriend(the guy I lost my virginity to). Nothing ever happened. We never really tried getting pregnant or anything but nothing even happened on the days I was most fertile. I had sex with this guy and this guy alone for two years 90% of the sex we had was unprotected. Then I met another guy and we had sex unprotected, but nothing happened. I started taking birth control about 7 months ago, i'm still having sex with the same guy. Nothings happening but i'm sure it's because i'm on birth control. Or maybe it's something else? If I can't have kids, I will feel worthless. I'm not trying to get pregnant, but it's really starting to scare me. Could birth control be messing me up or something, or hurting my chances? Has anyone had this problem before?

Oh, and i'm healthy, do no sort of drugs or drink at all!

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  • Hi. I did the same as you did. I have had ALOT of unprotected sex,and never was pregnant with 3 differant guys... I would not worrie about it, be thankful you havent been yet, when you get in your 20's then you might get pregnant easier...When you have a baby, you will have to give most your life to it, Don't try to be pregnant till you really can devote the time needed.I to took birth control pills. once when i was 12, becasue i have very heavy n painful periods. the pills dint help it, i got stomach pains and very bad acne.so i quit them. 8 years later i had to take them again becasue of breast pains.It cosed me to grow facial hair and side burns.my hair on my head shed so bad i looked bald in some places.I would not take the pill unless YOU HAVE TO, your better off waiting till your with someone you love to give unprotected... someone you dont care to have a baby with.I have stoped takeing the pill now, my skin is healing and the hair problems are fixing itself but now i have very bad hormone problems.Just to not get pregnant is not worth it...I do belive birth control hurts your chances in the long run. just think about it, your stoping your ovaries from doing what they are suppose to. this also is puting fake hormones into you.makeing your real hormones decrease productivity.. Oh yeah... and another thing that happened when i took them was i lost my libedo... and i could not get wet or sexualy excited at all...My opinion> stop them now before its too late. i only took then for 6 months. this was 2 years ago, and im still not the way i was before...all people react to them differantly so if u have taken them a long time, ask your doctor to gradually lower your dose... hope i have helped.
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    • December 12, 2010
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