Almost funny..After years of great sex and chemistry, my husband started taking serious pain medications. I noticed the lowered libido almost immediately.
Now it is at least 5 years later and with a complete hysterectomy I am experience vaginal atrophy. I am on estrogen and vagifem--but
this is the vent--
intercourse is unbelievably painful.. And, lack of use has made it worse.
And now, I really don't care. I had charted that we were having sex about twice a year from 3-4 times a week in our 40's and now 50's.
And here is the worse vent- I can do it better by myself, so my libido isn't all that low. If I find a young guy who like oral sex- which my husband does not, I am inclined to go for it.
Word to men who don't pay attention--someone else will.