for well well over a year now ive had a problem with painful intercourse, i have been with my partner over 4 years and before this started had a perfectly fine sex life, no pain at all.
but then i started getting a sore pain, as if his penis is too big for me and my skin at the very bottom of the vaginal opening is almost splitting it is so sore, we have tried lubricants and i am not tense at the time, even the doctor when examining says she does not think i have a problem with tensing up. i have been tested so many times for all STI's (new i wouldnt have them anyway) thrush, which now seems like everytime i do actually try and have sex i get anyway. the thrush isnt always positive. i have tried loads of creams and pessarys, and oral tablets for thrush, im either immune or i dont have thrush. recently tried trimovate (i think it was called that) didnt work.
ive seen a specialist at the GUM clinic and she found cells showing inflammation but nothing else, she gave me more thrush stuff.
i do have a discharge most of the time, one doctor keeps telling me she thinks i have BV but the test was negative, another says thrush, but the discharge isnt always that heavy, and i cant even remember now if i had the discharge befor ethis all started its been so long. do have slight itching now and again also. but not sure if its related.
i dont think its vulvodynia because its only on intercourse, not particular when speclum is inserted or with manual emaminations, its just with full intercourse.
im started to think im going crazy and my partner is ready to break up with me its become such a problem, we rarely have sex anymore.
whats wrong with me? im sick of going to the dctors and with no results