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Problem with vagina

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  • Posted By: John.W
  • November 2, 2006
  • 09:35 AM

Hi guys,

I have a great problem and I don’t know who to talk to. I met my girlfriend 2 weeks ago and we got our relationship going really nice. Now, there is one thing that has been bothering us, is that we can’t really have sex, because her opening at the vagina is very skinny, or let’s say small. She’s 21 now and hadn’t have sex because of this reasons with her other boyfriends, so this is really a new thing to me. When she would go to doctor for this, they wouldn’t really know what to do.

If anybody could tell me an advice or at least what’s the first step that we should take I would be very grateful.

Thank you in advance,

John.

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  • lots of foreplay, and a bucket of lube.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 5, 2007
    • 08:19 PM
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  • She may have vaginismus. Its when muscles inside the vagina contract making penetration painful or even impossible. (the muscle contractions may make it seem like you have a small vagina). Vaginismus.com is a great website to look at for this. It is almost always curable. The foreplay/lube response you got is what most people will say, but it won't help if she has this condition. If you really care for her, you'll have to be patient and supportive through the process (if in fact she does have it). Hope everything works out for the both of you!
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 24, 2007
    • 08:54 PM
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