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i've never had an ******m

Posted In: Female sexual conditions 5 Replies
  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • January 16, 2009
  • 06:56 PM

i've had sex with one person: my boyfriend. but...i've never had an ******m...is it him....or is it me? what are we...or i or him...doing wrong???

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  • how old are you? Get a vibrator so you know what you're missing and then teach your boyfriend how to get you there. Guys can be really crummy lovers and need a lot of instruction.
    Monsterlove 2921 Replies
    • January 17, 2009
    • 05:49 AM
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  • First stop thinking about it so much. The pressure you put on yourself can mess it up for you. Just try to enjoy the experience. I can suggest a position that works for me, actually the only one. You get on top, and have him use his thumb to apply gentle pressure to your clitoris. Your more in control of what feels best in this position too. Good luck!!:D
    sandra bee 2 Replies
    • January 18, 2009
    • 05:02 AM
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  • These days most women want orgasms. That wasn't always the case. Not much more than a generation ago, many adult females simply didn't have climaxes - and a lot of them weren't bothered about it. Some doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was 'normal' to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn't exist - and was simply a myth made up by the media. All that has changed now. These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms - if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms - if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 24, 2009
    • 11:34 AM
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  • These days most women want orgasms. That wasn't always the case. Not much more than a generation ago, many adult females simply didn't have climaxes - and a lot of them weren't bothered about it. Some doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was 'normal' to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn't exist - and was simply a myth made up by the media. All that has changed now. These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms - if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms - if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women. You should drink some female libido supplements
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • January 24, 2009
    • 11:34 AM
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  • i've had sex with one person: my boyfriend. but...i've never had an ******m...is it him....or is it me? what are we...or i or him...doing wrong???dont worry girl u r not alone.. i have been married god knows for how long.... every time we have sex im crying cos it feels bad.. i nearly get there but that feeling goes.. my husband its an expert in sex, he knows what hes doing,, i appriciate his help cos HE DOES EVERY POOSSIBLE THING TO MAKE ME COME. but that never happens... so therefore dont be worried if u think ur the only one with that condition.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • November 6, 2010
    • 11:54 AM
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