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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • March 4, 2007
  • 00:26 PM

i am newly married. I never had the experience of sex outside of marriage. i and my partner have tried to have intercourse but every time he approached me for penetration I found it unbearable. this happened many times over the last four months. everything is bearable until the first and slightest touch on the entrance of vagina the problem begins and evrything has to stop. i am not sure whether what I experience is pain or over sensitivity. i feel it is most likely sensitivity related problem. it is worth mentioning that I so much love my partner and really want to have full intercourse with him and vice versa. any help!

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  • Hymmm well Id say you have to eliminate all doubt of emotional setback...and be sure it is nothing to do with things such as, not speaking openly with your husband, or discomfort, etc. This sounds to me like a condition called Vaginismus. if I were you id look up the meaning of this. I hear it is: an involuntary muscular contraction of the first 1 third of the vagina. This can cause a lot of problems associated similarly with what you have said, and this condition can be caused by your upbringing..a fear of sex or childbirth being painful, unconscious negative talk about sex or painful sex in the family, (ex: your mother talking with friends about things and you over hearing...etc.) Just google it and see if it fits your concerns!!
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  • I completely agree it could be vaginismus. Here is a website from UC Santa Barbara that I found: http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=difficulty&refid=008 This is not uncommon, and very treatable through the exercises they recommend. But give it time. Best wishes.DOM
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