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complete lack of libido

Posted In: Female sexual conditions 5 Replies
  • Posted By: brandic77
  • March 29, 2008
  • 06:01 PM

Since giving birth to my second daughter 2 1/2 years ago I have had a serious lack of interest in sex. It drives my husband nuts. Its not that I'm not attracted to him, I am. I want to have sex and be interested, but I just am not. There have been a few brief periods of time where I have been more interested, but I can't pinpoint why it changed then. I'm wondering if I don't have some type of hormonal imbalance. I'm 30 years old, my periods are regular.

I do have some other ongoing health problems including chronic migraines, fatigue, minor joint pain that comes and goes and high blood pressure (which is now normal since I am taking medication).

Any ideas? Thanks.

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  • Hi I am having the same problem except I am only 25 and I have no kids.I had gastric bypass surgery back in 2006 and since then I have not been interested in sex with my husband I am too attratted to my man but just interested in sex I wonder what we both can do to increase our low libido
    love25 1 Replies Flag this Response
  • Try using a vibrator or looking at hardcore ***n
    reddhead 1 Replies Flag this Response
  • It could be many reasons your libido is low. I've thought about it and have been in your shoes before. 1- Any medications you are taking on a daily basis or at all could be a factor in your low libido. I was on birth control before and that's what did it for me.2- After a pregnancy it's different with everyone with their libidos. Some get their sex drive back and some don't. You just have to work out of it.I found great help with a female enhancer that was made of natural herbs. It did the trick tremendously and without any side effects. I saved money and got a lot of good info at female libido enhancers which was helpful.Really you just have to stick in their and ride it out and hopefully your libido will come back if you do it this way. It could take a long time, it might not but with the herbal way, I found it the best way. Good luck
    JulyDown12 3 Replies Flag this Response
  • Since giving birth to my second daughter 2 1/2 years ago I have had a serious lack of interest in sex. It drives my husband nuts. Its not that I'm not attracted to him, I am. I want to have sex and be interested, but I just am not. There have been a few brief periods of time where I have been more interested, but I can't pinpoint why it changed then. I'm wondering if I don't have some type of hormonal imbalance. I'm 30 years old, my periods are regular. I do have some other ongoing health problems including chronic migraines, fatigue, minor joint pain that comes and goes and high blood pressure (which is now normal since I am taking medication). Any ideas? Thanks.This is not uncommon after having children. Everyone is different. Hormones can be part of it, but high blood pressure medications are known to cause loss of sexual desire. Please speak to your doctor about this. There may be some help. Don't be shy about this subject. You are not the only woman to ask this question. See this link:http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/high-blood-pressure-and-sex/HI00091
    Beth56 272 Replies Flag this Response
  • Hi brandic77 and love25.....there are many such times that you don't have the desire to make love...that may be due to low testosterone or may be another reason. I was on the same condition a few months back after which I read some informational stuff online and then made my preparation to enhance my libido. It is just the matter of the right diagnosis and you both will be fine for sure.:)
    Maddox 1 Replies Flag this Response
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