Turns out the estachian tube was clogging up while standing and made me about 80% deaf in my right ear. SOLUTION was special nasal spray that cleaered and dried out the estachian tube as it enters the back of your nose/mouth combined.
DOCTOR looked in my ear and said he could see TRAPED water BEHIND my eardrum which plugged my ears while standing or siting. Only relief was laying in bed for days at a time.
DOCTOR said flonaise-type nasal sprays will do the trick too.
DOCTOR even said OTC Nasal sprays would help too.. He also said ignore the warnings and use a very liberal amount, he suggested about 8 squirts up each nostril.
I hope this will help someone else with this same issue.
THANKS for this forum, and my doctor.