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constipation, penis drip, exhaustion, burning eyes- after sex

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  • Posted By: Northernbob
  • May 10, 2009
  • 01:29 PM

I've been struggling with some problems that seem to be related to sex. Basic scenerio that takes place after my wife and I have normal intercourse: next day I find myself exhausted, my eyes burn and sometimes vision seems a little blurry, constipation, and my penis lacks some urine control as each time I urinate I have trouble shutting the valve off and end up with dripping. These symptoms slowly go away after 3-7 days then If I have sex again they all come back and cycle away again. This has been going on for years now and I have discussed them with my Doctor who prescribed medication for what he felt was a prostrate infection. The medication didn't work. Now I've decided I really need to figure this problem out and get on with a normal life. If any of you can help me figure it out I would greatly appreciate it. Bob

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  • I have the same exact problem!! the constipation..exhaustion..penis drip... and burning eyes. it usually takes a week after sex for sypthoms to ease away but there is definitley something wrong here. i even get yellow puss in my eyes! i thought it was something with my prostate too but im not sure...everything i have tried has not worked, we definitely have the same problem, have you found out anything...please help me!!
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  • Sad to hear you suffer from the same but happy I'm not the only one out there. I've been living with it for awhile now and haven't researched it further. If you do find any info that sheds some light on what the cause is please let me know and I'll do the same. Awhile back I did find a thread where a person was also suffering from the same conditions and he thought it was some form of STD he contracted after a one night stand but couldn't confirm.
    Northernbob 4 Replies Flag this Response
  • the only thing i can think of as what it could be is purly sexual exhaustion. have you had periods of a lot of sex..i have...and if so perhaps maybe we just need a long long break. i gave it a month with no sex, by the end of the month i felt great, had sex, but the sympthoms(especially slow stream while peeing)came back for about a week and a half...i waited almost another month with no sex and/or masturbation, then had sex again and the sympthoms lasted 5 days instead of the usuall week and half...perhaps we just need to slow down our pases? think about it animals mate once a year.....also...have you felt like you have even less control in bed than years ago...like the under side of the penis is extra sensitive which cause me to want to ejaculate quicker?
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  • it could be cystitis, I may have a lead on this problem, i found a quote that may explain the relationship between the constipation and the slowly improving sexual symptoms...... "More than 85% of cases of cystitis are caused by Escherichia coli ("E. coli"), a bacterium found in the lower gastrointestinal tract. Sexual intercourse may increase the risk of cystitis because bacteria can be introduced into the bladder through the urethra during sexual activity. Once bacteria enter the bladder, they are normally removed through urination. When bacteria multiply faster than they are removed by urination, infection results.".....this could explain why the symptoms take a awhile to ease away.
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  • it could be cystitis, I may have a lead on this problem, i found a quote that may explain the relationship between the constipation and sexual symptoms...... "More than 85% of cases of cystitis are caused by Escherichia coli ("E. coli"), a bacterium found in the lower gastrointestinal tract. Sexual intercourse may increase the risk of cystitis because bacteria can be introduced into the bladder through the urethra during sexual activity. Once bacteria enter the bladder, they are normally removed through urination. When bacteria multiply faster than they are removed by urination, infection results."
    ControlableInsanity 7 Replies Flag this Response
  • also...have you felt like you have even less control in bed than years ago...like the under side of the penis is extra sensitive which cause me to want to ejaculate quicker? also...have you felt like you have even less control in bed than years ago...like the under side of the penis is extra sensitive which cause me to want to ejaculate quicker?Yes yes yes! you're exactly right about the extra sensitivity and that started at the same time with the other symptoms. Before that I had good control of the ejac timing. Also after ejaculation the tip of my penis is so sensitive it can't be touched for a few minutes and this also started with the other symptoms. I'm 43 and physically fit, I don't have any strength or stamina limitations that go along with the exhaustion problem after sex. Heck, I can split wood all day long and feel great the next day-no problems with strength or heavy labor. You may be onto something with the cystitis. I did take one medication that seemed to work and this was one month prior to having a vastectomy years ago. I will try to research what that was. I had explained the symptoms to the urologist and he had given me a prescription to take for one month prior to the vastectomy, and I remember feeling pretty darn good after taking that. Glad to be comparing notes on this with you, I hope we can figure it out. Bob
    Northernbob 4 Replies Flag this Response
  • Exactly! i used to have much more control of myself, but all of a sudden know when i get aroused i feel like im already ready to ejaculate...i used to be able to feel it coming and hold if off and start over, but now this weird feeling comes along that makes my penis want to just start ejaculating and its impossible to hold it off. Ejaculating also doesnt feel as good as it should either, it feels like something is destroying my insides! and the ***n penis driping after sucks, i even get it when i am aroused...why cant my body just hold it in like it used to!?!
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  • Ejaculating also doesnt feel as good as it should either, it feels like something is destroying my insides! quote] I've noticed the same, the sensation is totally different now. How long have you been living with this?
    Northernbob 4 Replies Flag this Response
  • for me this has started over the past few months...it seems that it just start to happen out of the blue...i havent changed anything that i do to cause something like this...im beginning to think that perhaps it could be nerve damage, nerve damage takes a long long time to heal and can explain the different feeling...also the sensation of having to go pee also feels different, it feels more tender.
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  • Nerve damage? I don't think that would cover all the symptoms but not sure. Something related though- I have been in the automotive body repair field most of my life and all of the paint supplies warn of permanent brain and nervous system damage possibilities from over exposure. Still I have been around guys that have had health issues from poor safety around paint materials and most of them develop sensitivety the the products like hives, and sinus problems. Some have kidney problems and many have respiratory issues from isocynites. It's all bad for sure but I don't think it is what's causing my problems. My exposure is very limitied these days as I don't do a bunch of paint work anymore. One question for you: Have you ever experienced a severe pain in the rectal anus area within hours after having intercourse? Once in awhile I have a bad pain sometimes and hour after my wife and I have sex....
    Northernbob 4 Replies Flag this Response
  • now that you have mentioned it once or twice before i remember feeling like a quick sharp pinch like pain around that region, like deep inside but i havent really expierenced a lot of it to be seriously worried about it. Sometimes that area is itchy though, which might mean infection but i dont know. i know that the prostate is located very close to this region and the pain might be your prostate. Maybe we have inlarged prostates?
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  • I've been struggling with some problems that seem to be related to sex. Basic scenerio that takes place after my wife and I have normal intercourse: next day I find myself exhausted, my eyes burn and sometimes vision seems a little blurry, constipation, and my penis lacks some urine control as each time I urinate I have trouble shutting the valve off and end up with dripping. These symptoms slowly go away after 3-7 days then If I have sex again they all come back and cycle away again. This has been going on for years now and I have discussed them with my Doctor who prescribed medication for what he felt was a prostrate infection. The medication didn't work. Now I've decided I really need to figure this problem out and get on with a normal life. If any of you can help me figure it out I would greatly appreciate it. Bobi have sex too or even with masturbation as well have some of these problems but what happens to me is after sex i feel constipaded bloated and tired/weaker and it doesn't go awy till 3-4 days have u found out what cause the constipation lets talk about this more/......
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    • September 25, 2009
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  • I've been struggling with some problems that seem to be related to sex. Basic scenerio that takes place after my wife and I have normal intercourse: next day I find myself exhausted, my eyes burn and sometimes vision seems a little blurry, constipation, and my penis lacks some urine control as each time I urinate I have trouble shutting the valve off and end up with dripping. These symptoms slowly go away after 3-7 days then If I have sex again they all come back and cycle away again. This has been going on for years now and I have discussed them with my Doctor who prescribed medication for what he felt was a prostrate infection. The medication didn't work. Now I've decided I really need to figure this problem out and get on with a normal life. If any of you can help me figure it out I would greatly appreciate it. Bobplesae give a good solution to me.
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    • November 10, 2009
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  • I've been struggling with some problems that seem to be related to sex. Basic scenerio that takes place after my wife and I have normal intercourse: next day I find myself exhausted, my eyes burn and sometimes vision seems a little blurry, constipation, and my penis lacks some urine control as each time I urinate I have trouble shutting the valve off and end up with dripping. These symptoms slowly go away after 3-7 days then If I have sex again they all come back and cycle away again. This has been going on for years now and I have discussed them with my Doctor who prescribed medication for what he felt was a prostrate infection. The medication didn't work. Now I've decided I really need to figure this problem out and get on with a normal life. If any of you can help me figure it out I would greatly appreciate it. BobHi Bob,My name is Itay.Istarted to have the same problemDid you find any cure to your problen?Please help if you canRegards,Itay
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  • You guys have Sexual Exhaustion. Check out http://recover.forumup.org , too much sex or masturbation, or any kind of nuerotransmitter defiency causes these symptoms.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • August 12, 2010
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