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anal sex aftermath... please help me

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  • Posted By: polomint
  • July 2, 2008
  • 08:05 PM

I am a 21 year old female and decided to try anal sex for the first time 2 weeks ago. Ever since then i have been getting severe bowel problems such as always needing to go the toilet! i have had 5 bowel movements today already! i often feel uneasy as though i am nervous or need the toilet which is making me feel really ill and sometimes makes me feel sick and hot, and when i go to the toilet nothing comes out or just a little does. I have also been getting mucus coming out of my back passage which is orange and see through in colour. I went to the doctor yesturday and was told that i may have stretched my sphincter and that it should eventually sort itself out. i believe that this is true as when i have a bowel movement i can not feel it as much as i used to, also my stools are often soft and small. i am still really worried that i have caused myself long term damage as i have already been diagnosed with IBS. I am also constantly feeling tense in my abdominal area and my lower back as though i may be tensing the muscles that control my bowel. i am starting a new job soon and am worried i wont be able to do it as i may always have to rush to the toilet! please someone help me :/

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  • You probably have haemorrhoids/fissure sumthing or rather. Try out a colonoscopy.
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • October 22, 2008
    • 11:23 PM
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  • your mind is a powerful thing.... please try to stop stressing over your ailment as you are probably feeding into the condition...... Try to go about your daily routine as normal without thinking about it ...... Your most likely fine and will be back to normal as soon as you stop focussing so much on it... if after a week you still have the same prob then visit your doctor... the orange mucus is very normal... and your stretched star is normal as well but if your partner is rather large then you may want to only do anal as a treat and not ruin the muscle with frequent anal sex as this will surely ruin your muscle over time... you will be fine ...... STOP STRESSING :)
    Anonymous 42789 Replies
    • February 18, 2009
    • 05:21 PM
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