This is for my 23 year old daughter. My daughter, is my only child. I left her father when she was 8, because he was an alcoholic and drug addicted. Me and my daughter was always very close. She knew everything I was doing and me hers! It was a great relationship many envied. It was like we were best friends. We had some tough times financially, but we were always there
for one another. We ate out all the time, shopped together all the time, Had the same hobbies etc... Although I remarried, she approved and loves him very much so. She also got married after her first term in collage. we would all both husbands and ourselfs, would go out to dinners together, vacations
together, all types of adventures, home dinners and partys. But suddenly the sweet daughter of mine started lying to me all the time. Dodging my calls, avoiding any contact with me or my husband what so ever. If there was a call it was so cold and quick and everything seemed to be a lie. My daughter had been married for four years and her husband worked off shore.
When he was in she played the house wife role. He made lots of money, and all of a sudden when he was off working, she and all her buddys would go out
to party. She would go to the male dancers in the clubs, just party party party. When he was in from work his two weeks, she would want to go out but didnt seem as often, and he would go too! They wanted to start a famiy
but had problems. They never could say who was to blame. She took fertility
drugs for a year and nothing! I think she just gave up and decided to party.
They both had a strong love to and for children. They seemed to always be keeping one to five kids. After she started the cold treatment to me, and the lying. She told her husband about a month later that she felt they should seperate. She felt he didnt love her any longer. and he no longer had an interrest in there home, because he wouldnt cut the grass, empty the garbage, or any of the other chores she would ask him to do while at home.
So hubby moves out. She moved two room mates in to help with the expenses. They party all the time! She has lost interrest in all the things she
loved. Her dog now, runs loose and I dont think gets fed most of the time. He cat that she loved so much, was declawed and never had a paw touch the outside and he is old. Now thrown to the curb, like me and the rest. She gave up her collage, and her goals. She lives on barely nothing compared to what she is use too! She has lost weight, not a whole lot but she went from a 215 to about 150 in about 6 months. There was another guy
who stepped into the picture as soon as the hubby shut the door, with his moving out boxes. Which this guy has a child and a x wife. financial issues, and they dont excited to be around us. In 6 months, I have seen this guy three times. Friday night party consisted of 80 jello shots and someone got ugly and there was some confrontation! She dont hang with a lot of her old buddies. Most are all new! Do I have some consern here? Or is my daughter just tring to find herself or growing up? Do, I have any need for concern?
I guess Im just use to our very close relationship. And now I feel a bother or a pest in her presance. she is always in a rush, on the phone or in person. And she has started working, which she didnt have to before! She has had issues with most of all her old long time friends. so, they no longer speak!
Maybe I have just spoiled her! I have provided some lavish gifts, with no strings attached. Please let me know, If I need to have any concern! Jennifer Thank You!!!